Covered Abuse

The Abuse can be sometimes be covered.
You may take it at face value  that its Love.
The  more exaggeration  of Love,the more
Abused is covered.It can come in one of the two ways:
Money "overspent" for you.
This  can be theinitial aim of cover so that
you must not think straight but to be in his/her line.

Money is underspend for you.
The aim is to draw you and suck you to the
last cent.

No Money spent
The  Abuser can come as a Helper  with  no money but with abundant Love.
Happiness  can be more than  money.
Good treatment makes you forget about  your Abused era.The new Abuser will suck you for a long time.The Abuser will take  care of your children and be responsible  enough in cleaning your house and protection.

Although there's no direct pain  but the type of pain you shall experience  will be the shortage of food,pay more electricity. 
Some of the items will disappear.
All these things are causing pain.

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