When does Abuse start?

Usually it starts as 6 years and usually  the  boys  are the abuser.The  next question  is who contribute  or plant the
mind of abusing.The Father  to the  boy
created  heroism and  mouthing the Women not mention  the wife.

The mother may create that space of inferiority complex  by adoring the boy and
making him a King or both the  parents can contribute  to this mess.

As the child enters 10-15 years,will be swarmed  in with  ideas  of superiority.

Who could total rehabilitate  this  man?
None.The "change" which we may see is
temporarily.We must see the "remains" like
the left  house foundation which shows that  there was a house.

The  next phase is to monitor  the Abuser.
He  must not be given a space  to breath
He must be checked regularly. Say a period of 5 years 

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