Hidden GBV

The victim is softly  abused.
Why, because the abusers are carefully 
managing their programs.Let see what is
covered in the hidden GBV.
1.Love
2.Money
3.Shelter
4.Co-operation
5.Traditional Abuser 
6.Educational Abuser
7.Job Abuse
8.Friend Abuse
9.Health Abuse
10.Police Abuse

1.Love
How can one kick,clap,bad mouth his/ her
Lover and buy flowers and be told that all was done in the name of love

2.Money
When money is given to anyone is coupled
with gruesome words.The primary need is
Money covered by insults.The abused
cannot respond because it's a main source
of money.

3.Shelter
This can be rental or helped to pay the rent.At anytime vulgar words are used and
subjected to all forms of abused.

4.Co-operation
There are two types of co-operation forced
or free co-operation.
The  forced co-operation is sustained by
Fear.

5.Traditional Abuser
This is the mother of all the abuse.
Someone would stick to the past and use
Traditional Law as the Law of Ancestors.

6.Education Abuser
It happens in the educational institutions
where certain "favours" like sexual abuse or financial gains are secured.

7.Job Abuse
In order to be safe sometimes,you must fall in love with the Boss or donate some
percentage of your salary.

8.Friend  Abuse
This is the Artificial friendship which pretends to be real.

9.Health  Abuse
This can come from the government or
Spouse by hiding or depriving the medication in order to "hold up" the victim.

10.Pilice Abuse
The case is sometimes reported and take a long time to be investigated until sometimes  you do favour or to make it disappear.

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